How to Deal With Anxiety
Quick and simple tools to help your body settle and calm your nervous system.
Sheldon Simeon
Identifying Emotions
Understanding our emotions can be challenging, but the Wheel of Emotions offers a valuable way to identify and articulate what we're experiencing.
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Body Focus
Lately, I’ve been noticing how easy it is for me to slip back into survival mode, even when things are mostly fine. I can be doing all the right things and still feel like my body is quietly bracing for something.
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Cookbooks
Shame
Have you ever said something with the best of intentions, only to replay it later and wish you hadn’t said anything at all? That sinking feeling, the heat in your chest, the loop of “why did I do that?”, that’s shame. And it’s one of the most human experiences there is.
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Immediate Relief
Can you heal Complex PTSD outside of therapy? Many trauma survivors do through somatic work, mindfulness, and self-compassion. Here’s what actually helps when you’re healing on your own, drawn from real community experiences and my own journey.
Emotions: Understanding & Identifying Them
Identifying Emotions
Emotions: Understanding & Identifying Them

Understanding our emotions can be challenging, but the Wheel of Emotions offers a valuable way to identify and articulate what we're experiencing.

Shake it off, literally
Body Focus
Shake it off, literally

Embodied exercices are just fancy words to mean bringing movement to the body. Explore some of my recommendations, things that work for me, to reconnect to my body and be in the now instead of in my head.

DBT tools I use for Anxiety, Overthinking and Emotional Dysregulation
Emotional Balance
DBT tools I use for Anxiety, Overthinking and Emotional Dysregulation

DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) can sound complicated, but it is really just a set of tools that help you stay grounded. I share the ones I reach for when my emotions run high.

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Immediate Relief
Schedule More Sessions with Your Therapist
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Body & Release
Somatic Self-Care for Stress Relief
Sometimes the best way to ease anxiety is to let your body be cared for. Here are simple self-care rituals, like osteopathy, massage, sauna, or a warm bath, that help me feel grounded and calm.
Emotional Balance
Food, Supplements, and Emotional Balance
What I eat and drink has a real impact on how I feel emotionally. In this post, I share the simple food choices and supplements that help me feel calmer and more balanced, without turning it into a strict or overwhelming set of rules.
Cultivating Joy
Take up space & laugh and Play Like a Child
Laughter and play aren’t just silly extras — they’re powerful ways to shift your mood, reduce stress, and reconnect with joy.
Emotional Balance
Learning to Live in Sync With My Cycle
Tracking my cycle has changed the way I understand my moods and energy shifts. Here I share how I plan around different phases of my cycle and why working with my body instead of against it has brought me more ease, balance, and self-compassion.
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A Ready-to-Go “Activity Kit”
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About Otterly Anxious

Hi! I'm Marine 🦦

A comprehensive toolbox of evidence-based techniques, articles, and resources to help navigate anxiety. Discover embodied movements, emotional balance tools, and more.
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This website is the result of my personal journey.
It's a "Tool Box" I turn to everyday.

I suffer from Complex PTSD, and chronic anxiety is unfortunately part of the package. Over the years, I’ve searched for ways to feel safer in my body and more at peace in my mind.
What you’ll find here is a collection of tools that have helped me navigate emotional waves, ease physical tension, and reconnect with myself, especially in difficult moments.

Everyone’s healing path is different and I hope this guide can offer a starting point, a bit of support, or a reminder that it’s okay to sometimes feel lost.

Resources: Books, Podcasts & Therapists
William Irving - How to live the stoic life
Podcast
William Irving - How to live the stoic life
William Irvine goes in-depth on Stoicism, and why the fundamental tenets of this ancient philosophy can provide answers to some of the toughest problems in today’s society. On this episode Irvine offers a definition and some useful background on Stoicism and its origins, the original Stoics, their thoughts on failure, their advice on decision making, and how we can train ourselves to be more stoic.
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The Knowledge Project Podcast, Shane Parrish
The Fawn Response: People Pleasing, Self-Abandonment, and Standing Up for Yourself (Forrest Hanson)
Podcast
The Fawn Response: People Pleasing, Self-Abandonment, and Standing Up for Yourself (Forrest Hanson)
Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore the stress responses with the fawn response. The fawn response is an appeasement strategy, where we try to manage stressful situations by giving others what they want. Rick and I start by discussing common symptoms, including people pleasing, self-abandonment, difficulty saying no, weak boundaries, and chronic self-sacrifice. We talk about the roots of the fawn response and its connection to complex PTSD before exploring people pleasing in detail. In the second half of the episode we focus on practical tools for developing healthy boundaries, self-acceptance, and a stronger sense of self.
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Forrest Hanson
The Boy Who Was Raised by a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist’s Notebook
Book
The Boy Who Was Raised by a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist’s Notebook
And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist's Notebook -- What Traumatized Children Can Teach Us About Loss, Love, and Healing
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Bruce D. Perry and Maia Szalavitz
The Untethered Soul
Book
The Untethered Soul
The Journey Beyond Yourself
Story:
Michael A. Singer
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
Book
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
Story:
Gabor Maté
The Body Trauma Expert : The secret to EMDR therapy - Bessel Van Der Kolk Spotify
Podcast
The Body Trauma Expert : The secret to EMDR therapy - Bessel Van Der Kolk Spotify
Brain, mind and body in the healing of trauma. 50-70% of people will experience a trauma in their life, but how do you heal from these devastating experiences? If the Body Keeps the Score, according to Bessel van der Kolk this is how you get even with trauma. Bessel van der Kolk is Professor of Psychiatry at Boston University School of Medicine and President of the Trauma Research Foundation. He is the author of the global bestselling book ‘The Body Keeps The Score’. In this conversation, Bessel and Steven discuss topics such as, how to heal from childhood trauma, the benefits of EMDR therapy, the link between screens and loneliness, and how trauma physically changes your brain.
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Diary of a CEO with Steven Barlett

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